about the attachments

today books like 5 languages of love make a huge success as they create boxes to fit all population, but we are mostly made by the influences of several relationships in our life, specially the object relations (our first objects of love, primarily our parents or guardians). here, i add a video on attachment theory, diversily spread by thinkers like Bowlby, which margins the frontier on psychoanalytical object relationists. This video describes four patterns, but we should never box whole humans into only 4 patterns. That would be againt the whole principle of psychoanalysis itself.